Media mogul and veteran broadcaster Unathi Nkayi has delivered a masterclass in setting boundaries after a social media user targeted her and her inner circle with ageist remarks. The confrontation began when socialite Donald Makhasane posted a video of Unathi and her friends, accompanied by a caption that many viewed as both disrespectful and predatory.
The Spark: A “Disrespectful” Caption
Makhasane’s post featured a clip of the group of women enjoying themselves, but his commentary suggested they were merely “targets” for young men looking for a financial shortcut.
“My boys, I can’t teach you everything. This is the group of grannies you need to date to get ahead in life,” he wrote, sparking immediate backlash from Unathi’s fanbase.
Unathi’s Scathing Takedown
Unathi did not mince words, launching a multi-pronged defense that touched on respect, self-esteem, and family values. Directing her response specifically at Makhasane, she slammed his attempt to be “cool” at the expense of women he does not know.
The Key Points of Her Response:
- A Call for Dignity: Unathi urged him to focus on the “dignity” of his own marriage rather than embarrassing his wife on public platforms.
- Self-Esteem & Health: She took aim at his online persona, suggesting his “copious amounts of selfies” and physical appearance indicated a lack of self-care and low self-esteem.
- The “Granny” Label: Addressing the ageist remark, Unathi clarified that while she looks forward to being a grandmother one day, her current focus is on her children’s education and empire-building. “In my family, education FIRST,” she noted.
Standing Her Ground
The exchange has once again highlighted the ongoing tension between veteran celebrities and “clout-chasing” social media personalities. Unathi’s firm stance was widely applauded by followers who felt the “granny” label was a sexist attempt to devalue successful women in their prime.
