The South African entertainment industry is reeling following a series of explosive allegations made by Ursula Dlamini, the former girlfriend of award-winning DJ and producer Oscar Mbo. Breaking years of silence, Dlamini has publicly accused the “Asambeni” hitmaker of domestic abuse, sparking a massive conversation regarding Gender-Based Violence (GBV) and accountability.
Dlamini took to Instagram to share her story, posting images from their past relationship alongside raw, emotional reflections on the trauma she claims to have endured.
“Why Am I Protecting This Monster?”
Now a wife and mother, Dlamini explained that while she has built a new life, the psychological scars of the alleged abuse remain. She described “triggering” moments that interrupt her daily life, even years later.
“Oscar used to abuse me and I have to live with days like these where I’ll get triggered in the middle of a task at work,” she wrote. “I’m dying inside. Why am I even protecting this monster?”
Dlamini stated that her decision to speak out was motivated by a need for healing—not just for herself, but for her husband and children. She expressed a deep desire for the producer to be held accountable for his alleged past actions, noting that “healing remains difficult without justice.”
Online Reaction and Legal Standing
The revelations have divided the digital landscape:
- Support for Dlamini: Many social media users have praised her bravery for speaking out, emphasizing the importance of “believing survivors.”
- Calls for Due Process: Other observers have urged caution, noting that while the allegations are grave, they have not yet been tested in a court of law.
- Industry Silence: As of January 13, 2026, Oscar Mbo has not issued a public statement or legal rebuttal regarding these claims.
